Does God decide every matter in a highly blessed night for the coming year?

Verses 1-6 of Chapter 44:

Ha Mim. By the manifest Book that makes things clear. We sent it down on a blessed night. Verily, We are ever warning. Therein (that night) is decreed every matter, Hakim. As a command from Us. Verily, We are ever sending, (As) a mercy from your Lord. Verily, He is the All-Hearer, the All-Know

Although taking revenge is allowed within the same extent of earlier suffereing, the act of having patience, forgiving and making reconciliation is better!

Verses 40-43 of Chapter 42:

The recompense for an evil is an evil like thereof; but whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allah. Verily, He likes not the wrongdoers. And indeed whosoever takes revenge after he has suffered wrong, for such there is no way (of blame) against them. The way is only against those who oppress men and rebel in the earth without justification; for such there will be a painful torment. And verily, whosoever shows patience and forgives, that would truly be from the things recommended by Allah.

The believers must help and defend themselves when an oppressive wrong is inflicted on them!

Verses 36-39 pf Chapter 42:

Whatever ye are given (here) is (but) a convenience of this life: but that which is with Allah is better and more lasting: (it is) for those who believe and put their trust in their Lord: Those who avoid the greater crimes and shameful deeds, and, when they are angry even then forgive; Those who hearken to their Lord, and establish regular Prayer; who (conduct) their affairs by mutual Consultation; who spend out of what We bestow on them for Sustenance; And those who, when an oppressive wrong is inflicted on them, (are not cowed but) help and defend themselves.

Those who strive only for the purpose of worldly gains can be rewarded by God merely in this word!

No other religion or way of life except His prescribed one is acceptable to Him! 

 

Verses 19-21 of Chapter 42:

Allah is very Gracious and Kind to His servants. He gives provisions to whom He wills. And He is the All-Strong, the Almighty. Whosoever desires the reward of the Hereafter, We give him increase in his reward, and whosoever desires the reward of this world, We give him thereof, and he has no portion in the Hereafter. Or have they partners with Allah who have instituted for them a religion which Allah has not ordained And had it not been for a decisive Word, the matter would have been judged between them. And verily, for the wrongdoers there is a painful torment.